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I find it interesting how many marriages are ended due to infidelity. One would think that this would happen less frequently with the heavy claim against gay marriage being that it undermines  the sacredness of marriage. That sacredness seems to be trivial and only upheld but a select few at select convenient times. I know many different type of mistresses. Genetic women, gay males, transsexuals, escorts, best friends, and many more fill that role. I have to ask myself why? The escort is the most cut and dry. It’s about money. They don’t know the woman and they don’t have any obligation to her. So why should they care. They just want the money. Wham bamm thanks you sir, see you when I come back to your city to visit. The herder people to figure out are the people who want their own love. They have their own romantic dream yet still choose to get involve with someone married. The easy excuse would be low self esteem but i have seen people that are beautiful, successful (Alicia Keys allegedly) that still choose to be homewrecker or putting their faith in someone that belong to someone else. In Alician Keys case , it seem to worked out well for her. this is usually not the case. Most of the time the married individual is leading the mistress on for years down a dead in road. They will eventuallu have to stop and turn around and end up back where they started: Looking for their own love.  Here is a video where I am discussing this topic futher. Watch and share you thoughts.